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January 28 中国网民太可爱了！2009年最经典的“茶具”语录 天涯社区核心提示：这是一个才子佳人辈出的时代，这是一个超娱乐的时代，当网友的智慧发挥出它耀眼夺目的光环时，世界注定是一片欢腾的海洋！ 1.《孔子》观感：这已经不是一个子多曰几下就能忽悠人的年代了。 2. 我举报一个又色情，又低俗，又反华的艺人名字——黄日华。请组织部敏感词他！ 3.从今天起，做一个高尚的人。再不发负面状态。上网就扫黄，出街就反日。再穿一身黑装，面朝烈士，含泪湿嚎。 4.小时候/低俗是一盘小小的磁带 /我在这头/ 丽君在那头；后来啊/ 低俗是一团窄窄的纸条 /我在后头/ 女生在前头；长大后/ 低俗是一张薄薄的光盘 /我在这头/ 电视在那头； 而现在/ 低俗是一条短短的信息 /我在里头/ 警察在外头。 5. 春哥之后的又一防挂科神作——挂柯南，挂科难。如果你有科比的海报，就别挂柯南，否则“不挂科比挂柯南”；单独使用科比海报亦可，因为“挂科比不挂柯南”！ 6.10086因发送宣传短信“一次性交纳五百元送话费”，被封号！ 7.80后者，未及义务教育之免费，不见高等学校之分配，适值扩招，寒窗数载，二十三乃成。觅生计，背井离乡，东渡苏浙，南下湖广，西上志愿，北漂京都，蓄十万。楼市暴涨，遂投股市，翌年缩水。气急入院，无医保而返。友怜之，送三鹿，饮之，卒。 8.韩寒：从今天起，做一个低俗的人，劈腿翻墙，周游世界；从今天起，污染粮食和蔬菜，我有一个房子，面向大海，却被强拆。 9.所谓幸福的事：1.不用拼爹竟找到好工作；2.不用献身竟遇到好导演；3.不用买房竟娶到好媳妇；4.不用送礼竟遇到好大夫；5.不用鉴定竟有了亲儿子；6.不用行贿竟得到好生意；7.不用装逼竟交到真朋友；8.不用认爹竟遇到好领导。 10.考试是指行为人以强迫他人读书为目的，以书面形式摧残他人身心的行为。有以下三种情形之一的，法定刑加重：1.考试致人挂科、重修或以挂科、重修相威胁的；2.考试难度过高致人身心受损的；3.考前不划重点、不划范围、不给方向的…… 11.整个学期全荒废，临近考试全心碎，一周时间全没睡，考试之前全在背，走进考场全崩溃，拿到卷子全流泪，背的东西全不考，考的东西全不会。 12.《阿凡达》就是人族挖暗夜的矿，暗夜没有攀技术树，前期被压制，基地树被干掉，暗夜只能出英雄，升级操控火龙，暴骑兵飞鸟，人族出动全部兵力，陆空配合强推暗夜，暗夜经过恶战，眼看就要GG了，突然出作弊器，地图上所有中立生物进攻人族，结果就是人族被翻盘。 13.曹操出土后答记者问：你死在洛阳，为何选在安阳建墓穴？ 曹：首都房价太贵，二线城市便宜。问：陪你沉睡千年的女人到底是谁？答：嘘，她是貂蝉，字海藻。问：最后可否谈谈你对这个新时代的看法？答：孤已用名字回复。 14.我用一麻袋的钱上大学，换了一麻袋书；毕业了，用这些书换钱，却买不起一个麻袋！ 15.宅男费纸，宅女费电！ 16.《阿凡达》告诉我们：谁胯下的鸟大就听谁的。 17.昨日，李宇春在湖南长沙发布记者会，会上首次正面回应了网络上广为流传的“信春哥，得永生”等热门词句。李宇春说：“你们信我也好，不信我也好，你们总归都要死的。”在场的许多记者都流下了感动的眼泪！ 18.同学家吃的晚饭，回家发了短信和他说“你妈的红烧肉棒极了”。结果今天手机不能发短信了。 19.小爷缺钱缺女人缺心眼,就是他妈的不缺德！ 20.上海自来水来自海上，日照老年人年老照日，大波美人鱼人美波大，明天到操场操到天明，哥曾信佛但佛信曾哥，人过大佛寺佛大过人！ 22.丰胸的四种结果：1.大不一样 2.不大一样 3.一样不大 4.不一样大 23. 百度被黑的真相：因为伊朗兄弟上百度买火箭筒，结果被竞价排名的假货给骗了。 24.婚期将到，国内兄弟，有钱公寓，没钱蜗居，望长城内外，大厦高楼，工地上下，人浪滔滔，早起晚睡，达旦通宵，丈母娘说：买个房子才达标。须钞票，看人山人海，一房难搞。 楼价如此虚高，引无数英雄竞折腰，昔秦皇汉武，见此摇头，唐宗宋祖，更是没招，一代天骄，成吉思汗，只好住在蒙古包！ 25.唐骏说：谷哥回来了，回来了就好！谷哥的幼稚造成的不信任等随着时间会消化的！中国有谷哥是好事，谷哥没有中国是肯定不行的！没有中国的谷哥是没有未来的，这点谷哥是明显意识到了，他们后悔的很快，说明谷哥还是能应对市场的，还是个好公司，嫩了点之外…… 26.我小学十年，中学十二年，我被评为全校最熟悉的面孔，新老师来了都跟我打听学校内幕…… 27.我要让全世界知道我很低调！ 28.我以后生个儿子名字要叫“好帅”，那别人看到我就会说：“好帅的爸爸！” 29.小姐的胡须长得如此委婉，想必是位大家闺秀咯！ 30.我在女友手机里的名字是“他”，分手后，我就变成了“它”。 31.我这个人最老实。从不说谎话。这句除外。 32.我真的不愿意用脚趾头鄙视你。但兄弟，是你逼我这么做的。 33.我真想亲口管你爷爷叫声：“爹！” 34.我终究没能飙得过那辆宝马，只能眼看着它在夕阳中绝尘而去，不是我的引擎不好，而是我的车链子掉了。 35.我总在牛a与牛c之间徘徊。 36.我最近真的很忙，甚至一天都很难保证有16小时的睡眠！ 37.我左青龙，右白虎，肩膀纹个米老鼠。 38.我坐在一块一亿五千万年的石头上，发了一个下午的呆…… 39.武腾兰和康师傅两个陪我过元旦…… 40.物价与欧洲接轨，房价与月球接轨，工资与非洲接轨…… 41.系统居然怀疑我灌水，我身边又没有水龙头。哦…明白了，身上有一个…… 42.夏天就是不好，穷的时候我连西北风都没得喝…… 43.想污染一个地方有两种方法：垃圾，或是钞票！ 44.现在女孩身上衣服件数越多，反而露得越多；衣服件数越少，反而露得越少！ 45.人家文院女生身上莫名元素一大堆，还露着大腿呢；咱们工院女生就外套+裤子，两件就把全身裹了个严严实实！ 46.我想早恋，可是已经晚了…… 47.鲜花往往不属于赏花的人，而属于牛粪。 48.现在的导师都不叫导师，也不叫老板，叫科研包工头！ 49.现在的硕士学位，就像脚底的一粒米，不拿不舒服，拿了又不能吃。 “偶然”还是“必然”地上杂乱的摆着一堆线，桌上静静的放着一个弹力球。使劲将球向着墙壁扔出，跟墙壁碰撞出火花之后，又跟桌子椅子一阵亲密接触之后，迅速的落下并刚刚好固定在地上的线圈之中。如果弹力球也有命的话，这是它命中的必然，还是我们一厢情愿的把偶然当作了必然？
或许世间并没有那么多的‘必然’与‘偶然’，仅仅是无根据地相信、确信、以及肯定，又或者是自己给自己找的一个接受的借口，一个搪塞的理由。 January 24 你的生日，让我想起生日，一个人出生的日子。大部分人都比较关心这个日子，自己的，或者是别人的。用记住别人的生日来表示对别人的关心，用别人是否能记住自己的来衡量自己在别人心中的位置。
可是，有的人即便记住了一个人的生日，并送上了礼物，这个人也许却并没有真正进入他的心里。他这样做或许仅仅出于礼貌，又或许唯一目的是因为他知道这个人会因此而感激自己，并帮助他达到他的目的。也有这样一种人，他会清楚记得他关心的这个人的生日，却不会让他知道。因为他选择用‘忘记’去‘被忘记’。希望被忘记的原因可以有很多。每个人的可能都不太一样。还有的是对于有的人，很多年以后，即便记得，却不知从何说起了。
很多人的生日，你会记得一段日子，然后忘记。而生命中总有那么几个人，或许你永远也不会真正忘记，不仅仅是他的生日，而是他的一切。因为，那所有的记忆在一次一次的回忆之后早已被深深在骨头里烙上了印记。即便你再也不会去跟他提起。
今天是一个老朋友的生日。祝你生日快乐！希望你们现在过得很好。 January 22 I want a Fight after <<Cinderella Man>>拳击，一场血与肉的较量，一场精神与意志的搏杀。以前也曾看过许多拳击的电影，却从未有过如此的震撼和感动。请记住这个名字：James J. Braddock，一个拳手，一个丈夫，一个父亲，一个男人。
男人在骨子里面或多或少都有英雄情节。我也一直告诫自己要做个顶天立地的男子汉，什么样的人才是真正的男子汉？一场拳击？一场搏斗？真正的男人是懂得承担，能够担当，勇于牺牲，并具有至少一份养家本领的雄性人类个体。
曾经懊恼过，自己为什么从小都比较怕事，或者说不喜欢惹事，不怎么淘气，甚至都没怎么好好打上过几次架。印象中，这辈子唯一一次像个男人一样跟人决斗还是在初二的一个夏天的夜晚。除此以外，都仅仅是些意气之争的小事。印象中的自己，身上似乎总是缺乏一丝血气。这种血气是一种竞争意识，一种斗志的体现。不是说非要把人physically打倒在地上，而是在与其他个体进行的对抗之中对胜利的那种强烈的渴望。始终缺乏一种把对手“摁在地上”起不来的决心，所以也就丧失了追求这个本事的原始动力。
拳击，与其说是跟对手对抗，还不如讲是跟自己。人，我觉得都有两个自己。一个明，一个暗。一个影子不断的督促自己要向着好的方向前进，一个影子不停的让自己放弃，妥协，变得懦弱，安于现状的享乐。要想取得拳击对抗的胜利，首先必须要让自己变得强大，具备抗打击能力，然后才是击打的能力。要想具备抗打击能力，先要被击打，忍住疼痛，再忍受住更大的疼痛。要想具备击打的本事，就要不断的磨练自己，让拳头更硬，脚步更加灵活，反应更加敏捷。身体的训练，会有一个极限。可是，内心的潜力却可以无限。所以说，往往胜利的一方并不是身体条件较好的，而是意志最坚定，最勇敢，最顽强，最能吃苦的那个人。
拳击的美丽之处在于它对抗的激烈。一个个体同另一个个体身体与精神的碰撞。只能是更强大的一方取得胜利。很多人一辈子可能都没有机会把自己放上拳台和对手竞技，可他们却不是没有一个属于自己的拳台。每一次痛苦的经历都是被生活无形的手击打；每一次与命运的挣扎，与自己影子的斗争，都是在出拳。每一次失败的苦涩仅仅是被击打倒地，每一次成功的喜悦都是击中了“对手”的头部。人的一生就是一场场拳击比赛，只要每次被击倒都能站起来，就还有希望取得后面的胜利。每次击打到“对手”的有效部位，就离Knock Out更进一步。
经历过的，正在经历的，以后将会遇到的“拳赛”都仅仅是热身赛，真正的比赛从来只有一个，对手就是你自己。战胜了他，就是champion.
现在固然是在为个人而战，将来则是为了身后的家人而战。当一名记者问剧中男主角是为什么而战的时候，他说是为了牛奶。生活就是如此的真实，如此的具体。这就是一个父亲对他孩子的义务，一个丈夫对他老婆的责任。
最近战斗的如何？有多久没有上过拳台了？我渴望一场胜利，用来打破这一片夜的沉默。
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P.S. 电影名： 铁拳男人/拳王之路/拳击手/灰姑娘的男人/击动深情/最后一击
January 06 Body is like a machine, sometimes it breaksBody is like a machine, and people should take good care of theirs all the time, keeping it sharp and shine. However, once in a while, it will break with unpredicted reasons and at unexpected times.
Here comes the story....
After a long wait for the snow, my friends and I finally made to the blue mountain on the first day it opens. It was a Friday evening, after my work at 5:30. We drove for some groceries first and headed directly to the slopes. In order to have a fun snow season, I have spent hundreds of dollars on my gear, that's just another story. Anyways, it was thirsty and safe when we got to the hotel. (Guess I was singing too much while driving.)
After a long bed-chats, the shiny morning couldn't wait to show-off his big smile the next day. We got up not so early, but we still got two days in front of our eyes. Day/Night. That's what we planned. Just so excited. It was gonna be fun!
Well, everything went smoothly and well in the day time. My brand new skis turned out to be just perfect during the virgin tryout, which directly resulted in that I didn't feel like to eat anything until 2pm. It was 4 hours in the morning. After a big lunch, Jay suggested taking a nap till 4:30. What a waste! But guess it was good to relax a bit before the night show.
When we get back to the slopes around 5pm, the lights were on. Jay decided to try snowboard, and of course I stayed with my skis. After a couple times on the graduate slopes watching him falling on his ass, we decided to split because he wanted to move to undergrad lane. Therefore, I headed directly to the happy valley, a so called longest junior slopes in Blue mountain. It was windy and dark, man-made snow cutting on my face like a knife. Honestly, the experience was not that great. Then I decided to go back to find my friends in the beginner's slope, by cutting through a blue lane from top of the hill.
This one I had actually been to many times from my last ski trip to blue mountain. Actually, my last experience we had conquered all those slopes in blue moutain except a few double dimonds (most difficutl) ones exploded my confidence. Before I came for this trip, I told my boss and colleague that this time I would leave no regrets at blue mountain. (my original plan was to warm up on Saturday and conquer those double dimonds on Sunday.)
Anyways, here comes the peak of the story. I fell on this blue lane and twisted my left knee. It was too fast when I was trying to turn, plus I hit the bump. Because it was very steep, I literally slid on the snow for 10 meters, face down, with everything fell apart. Suddenly, I stopped and turned my face up. However, there were extreme pains coming from my left knee at the joint. I can hardly move it and I told myself I'd better not. It might got broken. Looking back, my skis, poles and my goggle were all over the place. It was really nasty at the time. Shame...
Fortunately, a nice Canadian mother stopped and asked her son to find the ski patrol. I was saved! While we were waiting for the ski patrols, we have exchanged ideas about skiing. In fact, I have learnt sth from this well experienced skier. She was really good at it. I could tell by her turns and stops. She taught me some tricks for turning and I was already imagining the next time on slopes using them. It must be good, I can already picture it! :D
Fortunately, I could still walk after a ice bag from the ski patrols' sledging me to the bottom of the hill. The conclusion was the bones didn't break. I was lucky. However, if the joint got worse the next day, I will have to see a doctor.
Terrible thing is that the next day, I could hardly stand, and it hurt a lot. The rest of the story was my virginity trip on an ambulance in my whole life, lying in a hospital for hours, paying all the medical expenses (another hundreds of dollars) just because I didn't have the UHIP card with me. The nurse said if I had an OHIP, I could just tell them the number and they will be able to find out on the system and I wouldn't need to pay, but not for UHIP. Damn it! Isn't UHIP computerlized in the system? Or how does government organize it if not? Anyways, first time I realize how important to get a maple card, as an immigrant.
Regarding to the hospital or medical systems I have lots to say because I'm thoroughly disappointed. The weirdest thing is that after 3 visits to 3 different hospitals, and hours of waiting to see a doc each time, I got no medication but a waiting list for MRI (Meganetic Resonance Imaging) test, Today, I finally got my letter for the appointment. Guess what! It will be Feb 3, 2010, a month and a half after my injury! I guess by that time, I will already be walking as a normal person. Now I'm on 3 legs. The worst part haven't been told, it will be 4am...4 o'clock in the morning!!! While everyone is sleeping, at least the most normal human beings, however, me, a patient, currently on crutches and zimmer will have to drive all the way to a hospital with it locked and I will have to find a 'interoom station on the wall to contact security to allow you access into the main area of the hospital' and finally have to find a MRI test room on 3rd floor of one of those buildings.... Give me a break.
Anyways, this is the time when life sucks.
Btw, due to the injury, I might miss the whole snow season this year. I have already missed the Christmas holiday and New Year's Holiday. As a co-op student, there is no sick-day holiday, which means I still have to go to work each day. Other than all this, I didn't get a chance to watch Avatar in a cinema. I just watched it on my computer last weekend. Due to the extra expense and inconvenience, I didn't get a chance to buy the 40' Sharp LCD and HP i5-750 desktop during the boxing day. There were 300 savings on each and I have been waiting for a long time. I also missed many dinner nights with friends, potentially missed some chances to meet my right girl. :D Bunny, too bad I didn't make it this Christmas. Harris, I'm sorry I didn't get to visit you and your bubble tea shop.
Those are costs of this injury, but at least there are good sides. It taught me what a real friendship is: a dear friend who can drive all the way from a city to another and accompany me in the hospital for the whole day and take me to a dinner and groceries and drive back home at 11 o'clock in the evening; another two dear friends who drive 4 hours to visit me with plenty of delicious fruit and warm hearts; another dear friend calling again and again asking about my latest status and offering help. It also taught me how important families are: my dear cousin decided to come over taking care of me at the first time hearing me hurting my knee and on crutches.
Families and friends. Thank you Frank! Thank you Vanessa! Thank you Annie and Alan! Thank you Vicky! Thank you all for sending me messages or calling to warm me up! I'm sure you will worry about me as well if you know I get hurt. Thank you if you do!
While I was on the hill that night, I missed you.
Now I'm just hoping I will recover soon enough to catch the tail of this snow season. Really like the pure white snow when wind flies by my ears, pictures flashes my eyes and heart pumps up my blood. Don't worry, I will wait until I get fully recovered, as the 2nd injury could be awfully worse. :P
November 13 So touched by this movie---BLOW Some comments people made:
很不错的片子，电影用两个男人一样的遭遇却是不一样的结局在述说着什么，尤其是当美花和乔治的妈妈有了一样的喊叫的时候，我被静静的震撼了，乔治的爸爸虽然依旧困苦，却最终守护了自己的家庭，而乔治在面对同样的问题的时候，用自己的人生去明白了父亲的伟大。乔治的父亲说，金钱不是一切，而不是Money is nothing.一句话将一个男人所有的悲壮和情怀高度浓缩，是啊，事业的确是男人的第一要务，但不是唯一，更加不是悲观的一无是处，钱和地位能让你的家庭更加幸福，却不能帮助你真正去拥有幸福。乔治最重要去学习的应该是作为男人的责任，最后他的忏悔与迷失，让人感慨.
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他很想当好一个父亲，正如他的父亲一样... 他在等自己的心肝，最后导演居然用幻觉诠释... 看后很心酸..很有感触.. 最后的一段话，我的人生到处留情，亲情，爱情，友情，但到头来一无所有... 让我感触人生..
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为了生活 没有什么是对或错的 富人和穷人的想法是不一样的 没有人有资格去评价主角扮演的现实中的那个人，除非你曾经是他。 都是生活逼的 人年轻的时候做的事情人老的时候话总是说的反的 富人老的时候会说年轻的时候争啊抢啊的实在没什么意义 穷人老的时候会说早知道年轻的时候就多努力一点了 事实改编的电影总是那么让人耐人寻味，编的电影也就特技好看。
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看完后 GOOGLE了一下他女儿最终于2002年，也就是这部电影上映一年去监狱看望了主角
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当人生能够参透的时候已经为时过晚，这部电影教育我们要珍惜自己的亲情，爱情，友情，金钱只是浮云，看过后我哭了，让我回想起我的以前，看电影第一次哭，这是个好电影，希望大家顶上去
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金钱是浮云吗? 如果银行里的钱能兑现，结局会怎样？ 亲情重要是建立在金钱上的!!!他的妻子如此，他的女儿也是，不然就不会不原谅他了。父爱是本影片要表达的吗？？？ 人，活着很难了，应该知足就好。贪婪才是人性最大的弱点。不要追求过分的-------------需求
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人吃饭是为了更好的活着 活着可不是单单为了吃饭
很赞的片子，很赞的演员。
人生。人的一生都在追求些什么？如何追求？亲情，爱情，友情。越大这些词语变得越具体。Money is not Nothing, just not Everything.
欲望。人不该有欲望吗？多大的欲望？但愿你能拴住‘欲望’的脖子，而不是被它拴住。
梦想。与‘欲望’的区别在于后者更多的是为了满足自己，而前者是带着美好的愿望去满足更多的人。 |
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